Abha Khetarpal on May 18th, 2012

Facebook has proved to be one of the most powerful social networking sites. And its popularity led to development of groups on facebook. The feature of forming groups was introduced with an idea that people would be able to further connect with each other. Groups were expected to allow a close knit social network within a larger website. People could create groups on diverse subjects for discussions or groups of families, co-workers etc. We can find groups on almost all the subjects and topics. There are groups relating to pets, sports, media, literature, photography, politics etc and I must not forget mentioning that there are innumerable ones on Anna Hazare and corruption in our country!

Groups were designed to let small numbers of people collaborate and interact on the basis of objectives of that group. Groups were thought to be microcosm in the macrocosm.

But what I personally find is that these groups are gradually losing their ground, not because of the motive behind their formation, not because of their laid down objectives but because of the irrelevant material being posted by the members. The members sometimes go overboard and in the desire  toget noticed, they start posting such material which is in far contrast with the objective of the group. Absolutely irrelevant!

Let us see an example. There are many groups relating to disability issues on facebook. The objective behind formation of each of them is completely different. One caters to accessibility solutions for the persons with disabilities, one caters to look into their psychological needs, one relates to improvement in technology and breaking technological barriers for the people with disabilities and yet another one is formed to promote volunteerism. But to my surprise, recently I found messages and posts which contained sms sharyis in them! Sometimes I get to read jokes and PJs in them. And on the top of it I see the same post by the same person in all the groups! Then what is the personal wall meant for? The innumerable groups formed in praise of Anna Hazaare are choked with same articles and same messages. So what is the use of joining different groups if our newsfeed gets loaded with the same posts leaving us irritated to the core?

Once I happened to tell someone that all this should not be done as we tend deviate from our target and group loses its seriousness and relevance. And I got the answer that everyone cannot be dedicated equally to the same cause!

I think the moderators of these groups now need to be more assertive and proactive. Without worrying about the number of members, i.e the quantity, we need to have quality stuff which should at least prove useful for all the members.

Another drawback of facebook groups is that the people are added without their permission irrespective of their interests. If all this is not stopped the groups in facebook would be a massive failure which would in turn lead to complete decline in the popularity of this site.

I would request people to let the groups be a place where organizations and bloggers should create and promote brand their presence, share news/events with their community and stimulate relevant discussion all in one spot. Let them function as a mirror or assist them in enhancing our existing Social activity.

Trust me there must be many groups where people would be enjoying sharing sms shayris, jokes and PJs and must be having great fun out there and so those groups should also be joined when one wants to feel light and relax from the day today tensions. We are responsible people and we have the capability to maintain decorum and sanctity of a place otherwise all this can lead to creation of chaos and pandemonium.

 

*This post is not meant to offend any particular person or a group. This is just a general observation as well as a humble appeal.  

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Cross the Hurdles (www.crossthehurdles.org) was started as a website two years back after I completed my masters in Counseling and Psychotherapy. The objective behind its launch was to provide e-counseling or tele-counseling to the people with disabilities. I wanted to be just a click away from them when they needed my services. Apart from providing counseling services in various areas like personality development, adjustment issues, relational problems, educational guidance, vocational guidance etc, the portal gradually developed as a disability information resource along with providing inspirational and motivational material. All this was done without any aim of making profits or earning anything. Every service that was being offered was free of charges. My goal was to provide as much relief as I could, to the people with disabilities. Being a person with disability myself, I knew what kind of mental blocks and hurdles we have to face while flowing against the rough waters of life. I could very well understand the kind of complexes people face and how much it is difficult to cope up with the conditions when we have no one to listen to or understand.

I had always been impressed and influenced by a theory which I learned while doing my masters in Economics. It is the theory of Pareto Optimality Condition. The theory says that if we are able to make at least one person better off without making any other person worse off, then economic welfare can be brought about. I believe that this theory can be and is applicable in our social life too. I thought if I could make at least one person with disability better off without making any other person worse off, I could bring about some social welfare though in fractions.

After sometime I wanted to give all this an organized shape. I thought I would have to reach the authorities if real changes and implementation of rules have to be brought about. So I got Cross the Hurdles registered as a Society, a nongovernmental organization. The people with disabilities, whom I have been and counseling and advising, also supported me in this endeavor. They were perfect volunteers. It does not matter whether one is on a wheelchair or walks with a stick or cane. What matters is the will…a will to serve…a will to help. We all meet at SKYPE every month, share each others experiences and try to find solutions for each others problems together. Some have helped in writing work, some have helped in translating my website content in Hindi, some gave advice on legal issues, some helped with their technical skills and so now I developed a great network of my own. One thing which I forgot to mention is the governing body of my society. All the members have always been great moral supporters.

Now, after the formation of the organization, I had to prioritize, plan and proceed. I had to make projects which I wanted to launch. There was a dearth of resources; both man power and financial ones. I found myself to be a novice in the area of working but I did not want to be a naive! In the presence of various constraints, things sometimes used become very agonizing. A mixed feeling of bewilderment, disillusionment and disappointment always prevailed.

With limited mobility, which was all the more accentuated with limited accessibility of places, things like opening a bank account for my NGO, applying for a PAN Card, finding a Chartered Accountant for it, getting the letterhead printed, getting rubber stamp made and many such other preliminary set ups became too tedious for me though all such things might appear to be a very small work for the so called normal people. Willingly or unwillingly I had to depend my mother, a sixty six year old lady, to get all this done since my father is a patient of Parkinson disease. How could I expect him to run form pillar to post for getting things done for me?

I would like to confess here is that though I am a disability counselor, I teach people to be optimistic and not to feel helpless, but at some point of time, I started feeling helpless and disenchanted. With meagre resources mainly in the form of money and manpower I got apprehensive about my being successful in achieving what all I had dreamed of.

But you know who came to my rescue? My students!

I have been running a tutorial centre since 20 years and have taught many students uptil now. Teaching is my main source of income whereas my counseling services form a part of my social and honorary work. I tried and still try to save a part of my running income from teaching and use it for spending in the organization. But I know it is not enough for running an NGO.

Those whom I had taught 15 or 20 years back are now grown up, well settled in various businesses, are experts in diverse fields or are in good jobs. They did not like to see their teacher fail! How could they let their teacher, their ”didi” (that is how they address me) feel as unsuccessful and let down! Now I was not alone. I was not a ”one man army” anymore. Now a regiment was being formed which gave me a new zest and zeal to continue the fight.

One of them applied PAN Card for me and handed it over to me without my doing anything or going anywhere. He came to my place with the application forms, got them signed by me, deposited them in the concerned office and I got PAN Card of my organization after few days. When I had to make payment for the server of my website and I was worried about the expenses. Surprisingly the amount was contributed by another student of mine. I needed the world to know what exactly I was doing. Then only the people would have been able to approach me when they needed my services. And this was done by those students who are in media! They provided me visibility in both electronic and print media. Recently I have received some financial support for some forthcoming activities of my organization from some of my other students. All of them are contributing in one way or the other whether it is their time, their expertise, their money or physical help.  And on the top of it, they do not want to get their names highlighted. They all believe in what is known Gupt Daan i.e. they do not want accolades for themselves. They do not want to be photographed while giving cheques as the politicians do. I told one of students that I was in the process of getting tax exemption certificate for the donors. So till I received it, he wouldn’t be able to get tax exemptions. And you know what he said? He said, “I don’t care if I get exemption or not. For me you and your cause are more important”. Aren’t these boys and girls fit to be role models for this generation?

So what do we call this? Isn’t it the real Guru Dakshina! Though, I had always taken money from them, when the studied from me, but this is the actual or the real Guru Dakshina, which I am receiving from them now.

I am not apprehensive anymore. Now I have a strong conviction that things would roll on though they may be at a slower. I don’t know when I would start receiving grants from government for doing my work. Till then, I with my teaching income and my students’ contribution would try to keep the things rolling. With a differently abled family, a differently abled myself and with my loving and supporting students & friends with a difference, there would be an absolutely enabled organization. I am sure the one day we would “Cross all the hurdles’’.

 

* Article published in Indian Age  Magazine May 2012 Edition. 

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Providing gainful employment opportunities to the people with disabilities would literally mean untapping of the latent pool of resources. Positive outcomes are bound to trickle down for the government agencies, for the companies, for the society, for the individual himself and for the economy as whole.

The problem

Provision of employment opportunities to the PwDs mainly rests with the State in countries like India where policies are highly impacted by the financial constraints of an ever dwindling economy. The policy makers are mainly stuck with the medical model of disability, according to which disability is regarded as a health or rehabilitation issue. It only targets to provide the care and services to support the individual with a disability. Quota system, compensation policies, sheltered employment are outcomes of such a model but our policy makers are completely oblivious of its psychosocial implications as these perpetuate negative perceptions about disabilities. They are considered unable, unproductive, dependent, a burden and in need of protection. The attitudes towards them become patronizing. Emphasis on disability certificates leads to further stigmatization resulting in marginalization and segregation of this minority group.

The private sector also hypothesizes and starts believing that hiring PwDs is associated with costs and liability rather than assets. PwDs are regarded as the worst job seekers or job candidates by employers and they thus are prevented from making their own choices and become economically independent.

Cost-Benefit Analysis

The financial costs of excluding disabled persons from the active labour market are staggering high as compared to the expenditures incurred on removing various barriers which limit their potential. Three forms of capital which are needed for the employment of the PwDs are human capital like education and skills, material capital like transport, tools etc and social capital like opportunities, peer support, trust, tolerance and social acceptance.

According to an estimate nearly 20% of accommodations cost nothing, and another 50% cost less than $500. This is negligible as compared the cost it takes to find and train new employees that would leave for another company. Thus hiring PwDs is a good solution for high turnover rates. Reliability and longevity equals better productivity which in turn means greater profitability and economic gains. The government can too save social welfare expenditures.

 

Accommodation and Integration: A way ahead

Some typical accommodations for workers include:

  • Flexible scheduling
  • Support during “Learning Curve” periods
  • Extra breaks
  • Job coaching
  • Commensurate wage pay system
  • Increased In-Depth Training
  • System for Emergency Evacuation
  • Alternate sitting arrangements
  • Keyboard and table height adjustments
  • Trainer support for competitive placements

 

Policy formulations, if done, on the basis of social model of disability, which holds to the premise that PwDs are entitled to the same rights as other human beings, would produce commendable psychosocial rewards like:

  • Self-sufficiency and social empowerment
  • Development of new skills
  • Heightened self-esteem and dignity
  • Self Actualization
  • Higher degree of integration
  • Opportunities for advancement

There are no two opinions that people with disabilities can rise to the challenge of a demanding employment. A strong commitment exhibited by top management and a positive attitude among co-workers are the best ways to remove employment barriers for PwDs.

 

* Published in the Research Study on Employing Persons with Disabilities by PHD Chambers of Commerce and Industry

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Abha Khetarpal on May 1st, 2012

Pity  is a deceptive emotion. It may seem that the person is caring and taking interest in another human being but if we take a closer look at it we may find that the person is actually distancing himself from the object of pity. We may be made to believe that the person wants to take away pain, misery and suffering. but pity, in no way, shares another person’s reality. It tends only to remark upon another person’s condition.

Pity takes a person far away equality and respect. The sense of pity towards the persons with disabilities can make people offer lip service or donations or temporary monetary support or subsidies. But they would never offer them a good job, or approve of them dating with their sisters or brothers, sons or daughters. Pity is almost same as contempt and fear. It comes when people feel uncomfortable with other person’s situation or physical condition. We all have heard statements like, ” Thank God! my child doesn’t have such a problem”, from people when they see a kid with disability.

It creates separation and inequality between people. Pity comes in the guise of benevolence but in reality it is destructive. How can people live together in a community, respecting each other as human beings, if one group feels superior to the other for any reason.

Pity gives encouragement to paternalism i.e. it tends to control people on the basis of disability. It  implies that we are less able and have less of a right to run our own lives. In the form of pity, we see some kind of wonder look or we can say bewilderment, on the faces of people who pass on us on the streets, that what we are doing out in public!

As pity from someone else can be destructive, pity on ones own self self can prove to be more damaging, venomous or toxic takes us away from our own reality. We are not ready to accept even ourselves. The how can we dare to expect that the others accept us unconditionally. Being infatuated by the illusionary comforts, we start hating our bodies and our situation. We may start comparing ourselves with others, completely ignoring our own  inherent qualities and abilities. We tend to become paranoid. There develops a feeling of suspicion in our minds that every one around is hates us or they do not want us. With physical disabilities, we then become more prone to develop an unhealthy state of mind. We can’t love, we can’t trust and we can’t even believe in God due to such narrowing down of spectrum of our minds. We need to be our best friend. But due to self pitying we become our worst enemies. Sometimes those who pity themselves and demand concessions and preferences for everything on the basis of their physical conditions.  For example some men with disabilities try to win over girls by showing them that how difficult and painful it is to be ”disabled”. With such an attitude they might even lose genuine love and friends. They may then become all the more isolated and lonely.

Disability is a part of a person’s whole identity. Pity, either on self or on any other person considers disability to be the pivotal issue around which a person’s individuality or identity rests. Pity comes with a cost of one’s own dignity and personhood. It makes a person believe that disability is a private problem which demands faith and fortitude from families along with demanding generosity from viewers.
Though our Indian culture, from the time immemorial, has laid stress on having pity on the weak and the deprived, but pity is nothing less than a kind of ostracism. So please stop pitying others and above all stop pitying yourself for any kind of loss suffered in life!

It is absolutely harmful and injurious to a person’s mental health!

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Abha Khetarpal on April 29th, 2012

Illusions discovered comfortably
Is an amazing phenomenon in psychology
We de-stress our stress
By a system of managing impression
To come out of depression
Known as rationalization…
A tranquilizer it is
acts as mood stabilizer.
Justification or excuse
These mental tricks come in use
The mechanism is not somatic
But automatic
Hides not only our obscure habits and behaviours
But also guilt and shame.
For extra marital or illicit affairs
It proves to be a saviour
Rationalization clothes all savoury acts
As it hides the unsavoury facts
It doubtless appears a pain killer
But on closer scrutiny
One finds it a conscious killer

 

 

*Poem published in anthology “The Fancy Realm” published by P. Gopichand and P. Nagasuseela, Dept of English, JKC. College, Guntur, AP

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Abha Khetarpal on April 29th, 2012

Emotions and thinking
overlap or separate
But when emotions dominate
Thinking is suppressed
Emotions ebb and flow
Sometimes we cry
Sometimes we pry
More we like or hate something
More the emotions surge
More the realization grows
Feelings are nothing
Just unconscious thoughts
But plethora of emotions is a fatal
Manage it with intelligence
Display of emotion is natural and universal
But to display it
At the proper time’
With a proper person
To a proper degree
For a proper reason
Is prerequisite for peaceful life

 

*Poem published in anthology “The Fancy Realm” published by P. Gopichand and P. Nagasuseela, Dept of English, JKC. College, Guntur, AP

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Abha Khetarpal on April 10th, 2012

Isolation and painful despair in conjunction with depression must have reached their intolerable threshold, when 22 year old Anil Kumar Meena, a medical student of AIIMS, took the adverse decision to hang himself from a ceiling fan in his hostel room recently. He, the son of a farmer, was the native of Baran district in Rajasthan. Anil had secured the second position in entrance exams in the Scheduled Tribes list and had been pursuing MBBS at AIIMS. But he failed in the first year exams as well as internal examinations. He ended his life because he was disturbed over his academic attainment as well as found problems following lectures in English due to his tribal background. He was reportedly depressed and had even developed some psychiatric problems.

We can’t even imagine what he would have gone through before tying that deadly knot around his neck. How much he would have wanted to talk to someone who could listen to him, who could understand him. How much he would have missed a person who would not laugh at his bad English, in whom he could confide his feelings and a person who would have taken him and his problems seriously. How much he would have wanted his family to be with him. How much he would have regretted on being a Tribal and not having the chance of studying in English medium schools. I think, all this is incomprehensible for us.

This has not been an only incident, when a student has killed himself due to the pressure of studies or performance. Often such precarious incidents keep on happening when students have to end their lives just because they find either the syllabi too tough to cope up with or have adjustment problems when they leave their native places and move to a newer and unknown land which possess altogether a different culture or life style than theirs. This mostly happens with students belonging to minority group, whether they may be students from ethnic groups, tribal regions or students with disabilities. They tend to develop complexes of all kinds. They might resort to extreme ways. Either they can fall prey to drugs or alcoholism or can be overpowered by suicidal thinking which often pops out of hopelessness about being unable to overcome difficult life problems. A depressed soul which is stuck in tunnel vision is unable to apply problem solving skills alone and is vulnerable to the fatal oversimplification of life’s hazards. The relief from suffering seems to come only in lap of death.

It is high time that the educational authorities and government start knowing the importance the importance of having counselors in educational institutions. The trend here is that the counselors remain functional only during the induction programmes of undergraduate courses or till the school level. Our educational system does not consider the importance of having counselors and mentoring programmes at higher education level.

Need for Counselors in Higher Education

Counseling psychologists assist in maintaining psychological health of an individual. They facilitate personal and interpersonal functioning across the life span with a focus on emotional, social, vocational, educational, health-related, developmental, and organizational concerns. Counseling encompasses a broad range of practices that help people to improve their well-being, reduce distress and maladjustment, resolve crises, and increase their ability to live highly functional lives. The severity of psychological and academic problems among college students disrupts the balance they need to accomplish academic success. Counselors are trained in a manner that they hold kaleidoscopes with ample lenses that embrace the multiplicity of issues.

Campus Counselors or Counselors in a university environment help students to discuss all kinds of questions or problems that they have. They can play an instrumental role in providing an enjoyable and less stressful life to the students. They are always there for the students for unbiased and non judgmental conversations. A campus counselor may be useful to the students and even to the staff in many ways.

Counseling faculty in Universities can promote, support and contribute to the academic mission of the higher education. Counseling faculty may assist students to reach their academic goals through educational, career and personal counseling. They may provide professional-level consultation and academic advising. The counseling faculty thus may become instrumental in promoting a quality workplace and an environment which values and appreciates each student and each employee as a human being and as a fully-functioning member of the university. A counselor has the capability to promote value and celebrate the diversity and individual differences with which each person enriches the world.

Students might benefit from visiting a counselor for:

•Coping up with stress Students enrolled in the courses of higher education may sometimes find it difficult to cope with the stress of the syllabus, unknown fears about their future and life to come outside the university as young professionals. Sometimes, just saying the words out loud will helps in find a solution, or helps a person to realize that the “problem” isn’t as overwhelming as you first felt.

•Coping up with homesickness A student might have to travel an unfamiliar city or area, away from family and friends. He may experience a severe sense of loneliness and one can easily develop depression. Homesickness is a common occurrence amongst hostelers and if it does not fade it can interfere with a student’s health and studies. At this juncture, aid of a counselor can be taken who could help them in learning adjustment techniques in various environments.

•Coping with depression There can be feeling of hopelessness, lack of motivation, fatigue, changes in appetite, physical pain, constant sense of anxiety, and disinterest in studies and activities. Depression in students is sparked by factors like homesickness, sleep deprivation, anxiety about sexual orientation, and uncertainty about money or even problems with social and romantic relationships. Poor eating and exercise habits are also known to induce and intensify the symptoms of depression. Proper counseling of students not only controls these symptoms but also prevents the development of alcohol and drug abuse among students. Even suicidal thoughts among students can be alleviated with talk therapy offered by a counselor.

•Coping up with sleeplessness Students pursuing higher education might develop the condition of sleeplessness while studying whole nights during examinations. 7 to 8 hours of sleep is necessary for the students otherwise even a minuscule may seem impossible to resolve, which would end up increasing their stress levels. Counselors can recommend tips to overcome sleeplessness.

•Coping up with fears and phobias Some of the students might suffer from phobia of exams and may decide to drop a semester or a year without realizing the importance of timely finishing up of the courses. Counselors can prepare them mentally and remove irrational phobias.

•For the students with disabilities Counselors can play a pivotal rule in removing attitudinal barriers faced by the students with disabilities by sensitizing the staff, the non disabled students and the administrators. Counselor can remove inferiority complexes of the students with disabilities and can help them to adjust in the university environment.

In short a counselor focuses in the direction of development of the traditional skills in human relations and student development. The goals of counseling in higher education are:

1. Promote, support and contribute to the academic mission of institution.

2. Teach students how to make decisions, set goals and engage in success-achieving behaviours.

3. Teach students to integrate work, education and leisure by developing meaningful life goals, ethical behavior and examined personal values.

4. Promote positive mental health practices through education, intervention, counseling, consultation and referral.

5. Intervene with students having trouble in achieving their educational goals.

6. Provide emergency psychological functions including: suicide prevention, behavioral management, mental health assessment, consultation and medical or emergency services referral.

7. Promote a quality workplace and campus environment which values and appreciates each employee and each student as an individual.

8. Serve as faculty advisers to students.

9. Provide consultation to faculty and staff.

It is commendable on the part of Delhi University that they have considered this aspect. They have established an Equal Opportunity Cell which addresses the problems of diverse groups of students hailing from different backgrounds. As far as professional colleges are concerned, UCMS i.e. University College of Medical Sciences & GTB Hospital, Delhi University has an Enabling Unit, EOC which also has provision of a Counselor for Students with Disabilities. All this shows a kind of affirmative action taken for these students. The Medical Education Unit here in UCMS, also has a Mentoring Programme which started in the year 2009. But, as far as I know, such measures are conspicuous by their absence in most of the other professional colleges and institutions. Why can’t other colleges, institutions or universities consider having programmes and counselors like these?

Though these steps may seem to be small but all such measures can help students in their academic and non academic fields. There can be an improvement in the overall learning and teaching processes. Peer support, counselors and support of teaching staff can do wonders in enhancing the personality and boosting the self confidence in students especially those who feel left out of the mainstream. Their hidden potential can be brought to the surface level.

 

* Article published in IndianAge Magazine Vol 4 issue 3 April 2012

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Abha Khetarpal on April 8th, 2012

 

My actions and words may not make much sense,
Still I am a being
Neither stupid nor dense!
Why am I abandoned,
Am I a complete nonsense?

I may seem confused
But am not complicated
My brain drier
All the memories mutilated

The green leaves withered
My skin wrinkled
My back stooped
My vision blurred
My shoulders drooped
My strength
My beauty
All vanished
Is that’s the reason I am banished?

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Abha Khetarpal on March 3rd, 2012

The invention of wheel, which was probably around in 8,000 B.C., is regarded as the greatest of all the inventions. It triggered the evolution of the means of transport from chariots to airplanes. And among these wheeled vehicles there is yet another very important means of mobility. And it is the wheelchair, which was invented around in 1595. Gradually this ‘’invalid carriage’’ became the symbol of disability worldwide.

Ironically, while all the other means of transportation have been accessible to those who are known as ‘’able-bodied’’, people with disabilities face acute deprivation of it especially in underdeveloped and developing countries like India. So the question that now pops up is whether carriage should be labelled as ‘’invalid’’ or the infrastructure?

In a country like India access to transportation for the people with special needs is still negligible. Inaccessibility makes people with disabilities hesitant to go out of their homes. They literally dread the presence  of raised foothpaths, rugged and dugged-up roads, huge gaps between platforms and trains. Majority of people with disabilities in India have not tasted the delicious flavour of freedom, as the world remains beyond their reach. Even the basic desires to go to school, temples, going out with friends, watching a movie in the theatre remain unfulfilled. And, ironically in this politics of vote bank, even polling booths are inaccessible.  In the absence of the user friendly designs of road crossings with flush kerbs and the development of the tactile paving system, the visually impaired people have nightmarish experiences while crossing the roads.  The sight of a blind man clutched by his shirt collar and his shirt’s sleeves by the helpers on the road must not be new to anyone in our country.

The Hurdles

Access to transport service does not only include an easy availability and plying on the vehicles. It is a complete package which includes appropriate streets and pathways, waiting areas, bus stops etc. What would be the use of a low floor bus, if a person on wheelchair can’t even reach the bus stop! The scene in India and in many other developing and underdeveloped countries is not at all heartening.  Following are the obstacles which people with disabilities have to face on their way to the accessible modes of transport:

  • Building work and scaffolding obstruct the pathways which are neither adequately marked, nor they do have safe diversion.
  • Street cafés, vendors, tables and chairs create hurdles and can prove hazardous for the people with locomotor and visual impairment.
  • Litterbins and flowerpots contribute negatively too as they do not provide tactile or tonal warning on the pathway. These also prevent the passage of wheelchair users passing on the footpath. Bins with no contrasting colour or high visibility attributes can be the cause of a mishap for visually impaired people. The problem can become manifold when high winds scatter bin contents.
  • Randomly parked vehicles and advertising hoardings can be hazardous as the width of public footpath becomes less safe for wheelchairs.
  • The occurrence of dog fouling or cow dung on Indian streets is a common phenomenon. This is an unacceptable environmental hazard for all pathway users, particularly so for visually impaired people.

The Impact

People with disability constitute only around 2-3% of the commuters of different transport modes.

The precarious impacts of the above mentioned obstacles are visible clearly affecting the lives of the PwDs. The vicious circle of poverty and disability cannot be broken.  People with disabilities are unable to go out to acquire a vocational skill or higher education.

They are deprived of gainful employment opportunities. Reaching the place of work becomes a Herculean task for them. The economy too is not left untouched when it has to face the sting of major losses in its productive capacity.

The real benefits of new techniques of treatments and breakthrough in the medical science cannot reach those who need them, if they are unable to reach the healthcare centres and hospitals. Thus inaccessible transport system makes the health infrastructure inaccessible too. And this especially is the scene of rural India where health services are reached only in the case of emergencies. In such a scenario, there creeps in complacency in the attitude of the community or family towards a disabled person’s health needs.

Unable to study, work and move about freely, the people with disabilities thus have to live a life of isolation. The encroachment of the basic right of movement thus perpetuates a consistent ostracism of people with disabilities when they are denied the opportunities go out of their four walls and become a part of the mainstream.

Recommendations

Apart from ensuring appropriate budgetary allocation to make public transport modes, shelters, terminals and PHC buildings safely accessible to PwD, the government needs to strengthen and discipline its law enforcing bodies. Not only the Disability Act and Policy in India should be implemented to ensure a barrier-free environment, but sensitization of transport authorities/staff on disability ought to be taken up on a priority basis.

An accessible transport system in a country, where the people with disabilities can be seen moving freely without any hitch, hesitation or difficulty, can serve as measure of its quality. If persons with disabilities can get to trains or buses easily, it would automatically mean that how comfortable it would be for the people without disabilities!

Let the authorities and the transport system really know the meaning of the word ACCESS when they say they are committed towards establishing an infrastructure based on Universal Design.

The word ACCESS then should stand to mean:

A – Affordability

C- Comfort

C -Conditioned according to the needs

E -Energy Conservation (in terms of both physical and financial)

S- Sensitized

S- Sustainability

Provision of accessible means of transport then would be no less than giving them wings to fly! So let us reinvent wheels and convert the symbol of disability into a symbol of liberation.

 

*(Paper presented at National Symposium on Designing Roads for Disabled Pedestrian in India held at Indian Spinal Injuries Center, New Delhi)

 

 

 

 

 

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Abha Khetarpal on February 13th, 2012

We see people in love. Completely drowned in it; absolutely intoxicated by it. And before they are able to get back to their senses, suddenly there is a BOOOOOOOOM!!!

Everything gets over!!

Many of us have undergone Valentine blues or love massacres. Carrying a broken heart inside our mortal bodies with fake smiles on the lips becomes not only painful but also intolerable. And the “culprit” roams around scot-free around us, enjoying a new victim, attracting a newer prey. Witnessing all this can be devastating and almost fatal.

The aftermath of heart break brings sharp spikes of anxiety. Weight loss, reduced sleep and appetite come along with it as a package. One is flooded by nonstop intrusive thoughts and feelings of why one was assaulted. There is consistent reliving of memories. One tends to continuously catalogue the rejecters perfections and starts listing one’s own shortcomings for which one was rejected. There is obsessive despair all the time. The dreams change into nightmares.

There is grieving process that goes on after the heart break. It is the death of a relationship. There is denial, anger, depression and an acceptance after a long time.
It pains like a scab is torn off from the wound which remains fresh all the time.
Some people adopt extreme responses like stalking, revenge on others, homicide or suicide. Some drown themselves in depression and get themselves dependent on antidepressants for whole of their lives or combination of any of these responses.

Evolutionary psychologists, neuroscientists, and pharmaceutical researchers have found fascinating facts on heartbreak. The forces that bind two people together are powerful, but dissolution of love is more powerful. It is like a trauma to the brain. There is a close connection between mind, brain and body. Heartbreak and rejection can lead to physical illness and certain disorders that are no less than mental illness. Such physical pain tends to activate those set of brain regions that are involved in negative emotions. Heart breaks are among the most stressful life events a person can experience. The psychological pain as horrific as the loss of a child.

Neuroimaging of men and women who are “madly in love” show hyper activity in the brain area where a neurotransmitter Dopamine is produced and distributed. This chemical is responsible for driving for food, water, love and sex. There is also stimulation of those areas of brain which are associated with the craving and addiction of cocaine or alcohol. Two other hormones also flood the brain during intimacy…Oxytocin which is also known as “cuddle compound,” and vasopressin is called a tension-taming chemical.

But when there is rejection, a kind of withdrawal effect is seen as in the case of narcotics.  The heartbreak can fuel obsessive behaviour. When a person witnesses romantic rejection the brain starts releasing more of stress hormones such as norepinephrine, preparing the person for fight or flight. The autonomic nervous system, that controls such functions as digestion and circulation, also gets involved when a person is rejected.

So what should one do now?

We need to rehabilitate the broken heart. One needs to move on. You need to dump even the slightest thought of that person who has treated you like a doormat. The treacherous affair which caused so much pain and despair has to be flushed out of the system. You need to learn to go beyond what your senses can see, hear, feel, touch and pay attention to your inner being. You need to develop all your inner elements in harmony with each other. Instead of finding an external compatible partner you need to befriend yourself first.

Do not mourn on love that was based on senses and chemicals. It has to fade away. A deep love is the one with an inner connection on many levels emotionally, mentally, intellectually and physically. Next time you need to be careful in choice. True love helps in growth and nurturing both the partners together when are committed to each other. Commit to someone who is honest, genuine and knows the meaning of commitment. Don’t waste too much of your valuable time for what only feels like chasing your own tail. A cheater neither deserve your tears nor your attention. The word “hate” is too small to be used as an antonym for “love”…Let the word “indifference” become its antonym!

And above all, always remember that romantic love is a hoax. True love never dumps!!

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